IMO a perfect setting for a nice glass shower screen, you do not need 2 shower curtains for sure and sometimes tou just can't have what you want only what you need

Does not have a windows? I see windows. And why you want a skylights in bedroom where you only sleep? Weird for me.

No skylights in bedroom.

What do you gain in abedroom with a skylight since mostly bedrooms are used at night and no need for a skylight .

I have this one, nice base does not tip, can hold extra rolls,

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I just installed a Command toilet paper holder on the side of my sink base cabinet. Did not have to drill any holes, has held up perfectly.

Thanks so much, darbuka, for weighing in on my very old, dated cabinet style without even full overlay! I will continue to be satisfied with and enjoy my mismatch. Whew, permission granted!

Just a comment on this: "First is aging in place, staying in the family home/apartment that is comfortable. What we all wish for. We want to be carried out feet first, right?"

Not necessarily. While I love our home dearly, I know that once DH is gone (presuming he goes first) I will be on my own. With no family, it means no one will know I'm dead until they notice the mailbox is overstuffed a few weeks later. They'd come in to find my remains, eaten by the cats. Not a desirable outcome.

So I've given a lot of serious thought to a continuing care facility not far from here. Yes they are expensive, but what better use could my money go to than keeping me comfortable for the rest of my days? I can get the care I need as I age, but most important is the community around me who will notice if I'm wandering around looking for breakfast at 2am, or if they haven't seen me in my usual spot at dinner. Being incapacitated, especially mentally, and on your own is a really dangerous and scary outcome. And the problem with mental incapacitation is you don't always know you have it until you've burned the house down.

I’m 69 and able-bodied. If my adult children came to my house and said Mom, you need to move, I would ignore them. I make my own decisions, thank you.

So, make the updates. Drawers in the kitchen. More outlets everywhere. Where does she do deskwork, including finances, opening the mail, doing the NYT puzzles, go online? Make those areas work, with good lighting and outlets she doesn’t have to bend down for. Sez I as I sit at the kitchen table, going through insurance docs, with tablet and phone charging, a lamp because I prefer it to the overhead pendant, and my coffee-warmer. The outlet here is thankfully not near the floor.

Block the bathrooms for future handrails, and think hard about where those will be.

more, but you get where I’m coming from. Respect your mother’s wishes and abilities. She knows when it is time.

Sharing my experience with my parents. They lived in a 1967 split level, so 6-7 stairs from the living area to either bathroom. They lived there until my Dad moved into long term care at age 94, and my mother was 88. She was mobile, he was in a wheelchair for the last few months, used a walker before that.

The only aging-in-place we did was to install double handrails on all stairs, and replace the living room carpet with hardwood, no rug. They did some updates to the house in in the early 90's, but nothing after that.

According to his physio and OT, the necessity to do stairs for toileting was what kept his legs strong enough to avoid falls, up until he needed a wheelchair more because his dementia had progressed to the point where he couldn't remember how to walk or get out of a chair. For the last few months there we moved their beds to the dining room and he used a toilet commode. Not elegant but it worked and was safe.

You are saying "she has finally agreed" to the renovation. If she is not enthusiastic about it, why is she doing it if the house stll functions well for her currently? She may need the money for long term care which is expensive. Obviously you know her beter than me but consider that she is currently mentally capable and doesn't need someone else telling her to do cosmetic updates to her home. I am 71 and would tell my children to mind their own business.

When the the home no longer suits her needs, she may prefer to move. Then she has less money to do so because she has spent the money on these renovations that still don't make her home truly suitable for her reduced physical and/or mental needs. And by then the cosmetic improvements will be old and the new buyer probably wants to update anyway, so they add no value to the home.

And this would be OK and completely her prerogative if she is a "house proud" type of person and the dated decor is making her unhappy. But I don't think that's the case if she needs to be convinced.

I missed the " She has finally agreed" which I will couple with " The house needs some love"

Follow up to my earlier comment:

I had promised my Dad we would keep their home "ready to go back" when they went to assisted living, ( Sure Dad.....as IF that is happening. WAH.......)

We finally sold their home at their six month mark in assisted living, I went in, pruned, cleaned, staged, and I mean STAGED, De cluttered, cleaned, had a garage sale, ,broke my neck for days. No remodel of anything.

My dad wanted to be there for the garage sale, sit in the driveway. ..........goes into the house and comes out with his walker........

"Wow........how come it never looked this good when we were here?!"

"Uhhhhhhhhhh because you wouldn't let me touch it?"

Before you embark on the very extensive good deed remodel? Think, and think and think some more. Be very positive it is for her, and not for you : ) as she is certainly young enough to be controlling her life, unless depressed or otherwise mentally compromised.

If you can't teach them to pee in the toilet, teach them to pee sitting down so they don't mess up your curtain.

True confession:

Every single post loses me, when pictures ( available world WIDE) are taken with the toilet seat in up position. The most necessary and least attractive piece in any bath does not need to be worsened, let alone highlighted, in this manner.

A hand wring on decor seems pointless when it is obviously a condition so natural to the owner, it goes completely unnoticed as they hold up the phone.

You can allll beat me up below, for the "DOWN...........please? ".

Client. Not Kirby! How that auto made that change I don’t know.

I am atrained chef I design my kitchen to function for how I cook. I care not if anyone else likes it . You love it, be happy it is a fact you cannot please everyone all of the time only please yourself. I will be honest your kitchen is a bit overdone but it is your kitchen period

A built in vanity with side filler strips and a wall to wall top would be sleek and easy to clean. Vanities with legs and gaps make it much harder to keep walls and floors free of dust and drips around them. A medicine cabinet adds lots of storage.

I've been visualizing the living room focal point to be a square coffee table we will use for puzzling with the grandkids. In preparation for my son's visit, I bought jigsaw puzzles for his two kids. On the first day I learned they had never put together puzzles before and was told they probably wouldn't be interested. Well, turns out they are puzzle fiends! I had all four of my grandkids putting together multiple puzzles and racing to the finish together. My grandson was putting pieces in place based on shape while the rest of us were going by color. Eventually he will find that skill very useful. I was so happy for the look of joy on his face when he fit a piece and looked at me as we shared the accomplishment.
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Then I had to laugh as my husband marveled at how innovative it was to entertain the grandkids by having puzzles on the cork floors upstairs being renovated... no furniture. He previously was concerned, thinking the floor would be too hard. But my 7-year-old grandson first sat down on it and spread his hands on it and said, "Oooooo" at how comfortable it was. After a couple days, my 10-year-old local granddaughter declared that bedroom should always be for puzzling on the floor.

So I am pleased to continue to envision the living room and dining room together as a puzzles/games/reading room/library.

I would just remove the crown ….

I’d order different uppers for each side of the hood - more money but more storage and cleaner lines (cleans up the cab trim transition to the glass cab which i would def want), then reuse the current ones in a laundry, basement , garage etc,,

It is a sad day on Houzz when someone runs out of their intelligence.